Marry a man who loves you unconditionally. There’s no ‘I will do this when you do that’ toxicity.

Who lights you up and brings calmness to any situation, whether it’s finding the way, or looking for a lost item.

Marry a man who ‘gets you’ and goes with your flow. He understands the sketchbook comes out often and daily life is drawn into it, when the Polaroid camera makes an appearance and paint is the only thing on the shopping list.

Marry a man who is honest with you and you are back. Someone who isn’t afraid to say as you pull up late night in the drive way ‘I lost my job’ or who you can say how you really felt in a situation or what that outfit or attitude says.

Marry a man who supports your creative obsessions or side business but doesn’t try and take over. He’s all for having a writing desk in your bed room and vision boards. His lazy morning is your writing time and training for him is painting time for you.

Marry a man who you can laugh with, at comedies, problems, solutions and surprising things that happened in your day.

Marry a man who is your comrade in morning spiritual practice.

Marry a man who sees things as doable because they are and use your combined energy to completing a project, an idea, a picture on the wall.

Marry a man because it feels right, time together, age and distance do not matter, when you know you know.

Marry a man who is an added bonus to yourself living wholeheartedly.

If you haven’t found him yet, live in love.

If you have, love him.

This February marks our first anniversary together and in March our first 6 months married!

It’s also World Marriage Day!